Houseplants and relationships have more in common than you think. Both require care, patience, and the right balance of attention—not too much, not too little. And just like your dating habits, your approach to plant parenting says a lot about how you navigate love. Are you a nurturing, hands-on partner? Or do you tend to ghost your green friends the way you might a new match? Let’s dig in (pun intended) and see what your plant-parent red flag reveals about your love life.

The Serial Plant Killer

You have the best intentions, really. But somehow, every plant you bring home meets an untimely end. Maybe it’s too much water, too little light, or simply forgetting it exists—whatever the case, commitment just isn’t your strong suit (yet). In relationships, you jump in with enthusiasm but might struggle with follow-through. The good news? There’s hope! Start with a ZZ Plant—it thrives on neglect, just like that situationship you keep revisiting.

The Commitment-Phobe

Your plant collection consists of succulents and cacti—low-maintenance, low-drama, and impossible to kill. Sound familiar? You like relationships that don’t require too much effort and might cringe at the idea of ‘watering’ a connection too often. The Whale Fin Sansevieria is your perfect match—independent, resilient, and totally okay with some space. Just remember, even the most low-maintenance love (or plant) needs a little attention now and then.

The Over-Attached Plant Parent

You talk to your plants, check their soil daily, and panic over the slightest browning leaf. In love, you’re just as invested—your texts come in rapid-fire succession, and you need constant reassurance that everything is okay. Your plant soulmate? The Calathea Freddie. It’s dramatic, thrives in a humidity-controlled environment, and demands your undivided attention. Just make sure you’re giving your relationships (and your plants) enough room to breathe!

The Plant Hoarder

Your home is starting to look more like a jungle than a living space, and you wouldn’t have it any other way. Every time you see a new plant, you convince yourself you need it. You fall hard and fast, whether for a new plant or a new crush, and before you know it, you’re juggling way more than you can handle. Your ideal plant? The Spider Plant. It’s forgiving, easygoing, and thrives even when you’ve accidentally forgotten about it for a week because you were too busy buying more plants.

Whether you’re a serial plant killer or a devoted plant parent, there’s a plant (and a love style) out there for you. The key is finding the right balance—both in relationships and in plant care. And if you’re looking to level up your plant game, Bloomscape has the perfect match waiting for you. Happy planting—and happy dating!